When we think about the layers of the mind, most folks simply think in terms of two layers, namely the Conscious mind and the Unconscious mind. However, there is actually a third layer called the Subconscious mind. This layer exists within a very well-defined range of brain waves and associated brain states, most specifically within the alpha and theta brain wave ranges. Yet even with that more complete description, the human mind has a much more complex organization. That's what we'll be talking about in this section. It might seem a little odd to get down to such detailed levels, but these layers all have distinctly different purposes, and impacts upon our quality of life. Thankfully, once we understand those layers and how they impact us, we can use that knowledge to accomplish our goals.
Each layer of the mind has a role to play in our character, and in our mental health. Under ideal conditions, all of these layers work together to create a well-rounded, mentally and emotionally healthy human being who can reach his or her full potential. But what are these layers? They have been labeled as:
The listing of the different layers, and the diagram at the top of this page, is not just a random list of these layers. I presented them in order of their hierarchy, and in terms of their influence from either the Conscious and/or Subconscious mind.
Furthermore, there is a more subtle hierarchy to the layers. The "ruling" layer is the Identity. Each identity we have in life carries with it a variety of related values, beliefs and behaviors. This explains a phenomenon we've undoubtedly seen in the people around us, where their behaviors, opinions and choices will change dramatically as they move from one identity to another. For instance, one marked change often accompanies the move from being a student to being a young adult. Another big shift occurs when someone moves from an identity as a single person to one being in a relationship, and then again to being in a marriage. Additional examples are seen when people adopt very different beliefs, values and behaviors when they transition from being non-parents to being parents, from unemployed to employed, or from employed to retired. These changes aren't random. This is because of what behaviors, beliefs and values were modeled by individuals within certain identities as we grew up.
We spoke before about how these layers all influence each other, and under ideal circumstances they all line up and support each other. That is actually called alignment. When a person's identity, values, beliefs, potential and behaviors are all aligned, that person can reach individual goals seemingly without effort. However, in real life, most of us have one or more identities, values, and/or beliefs which interfere with our goals. This results in a behaviors which contradict or sabotage our goals. How do we get all our layers into alignment?
You might look through this list and think "gosh, I have a lot of beliefs, values and/or identities which are dysfunctional or somehow undesirable. How do I make changes?" Or you might think "wow, I never thought I had the potential to do X, but now I sorta wonder if I could." Or you have behaviors which you don't like, that you've repeatedly tried to change, only to end up repeating them. How do you work with these layers to get the changes you want? In other words, how do you craft a consistent, healthy, functional combination of identities, values, beliefs, potentials and behaviors?
The short answer is: through NLP.
The longer answer is a little bit more involved. The changes we want to make in life depend upon the level(s) involved:
One of the most effective way to change things is to start at the top with the identity, and replace a dysfunctional identity with one that supports our goals. Then that one change will cascade down through the other layers, resulting in much better alignment, with the least amount of effort on our part.
If you wish to make changes, there are two ways to proceed:
If you would like to learn the techniques of self-hypnosis and/or NLP, check out the classes available through Transform Destiny. With their comprehensive set of classes, you can learn any hypnosis or NLP technique you need to make these changes. You can even take classes to become certified in hypnosis or NLP.
If you'd prefer to work with a hypnotherapist or NLP coach, contact me for a free consultation visit. We'll discuss your goals and the obstacles you've encountered trying to reach them. Then we'll work out a plan for how to overcome those obstacles, make any needed changes to your identities, values and beliefs, and help you reach your full potential.
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